A woman's heart

Of all of God's creation, I feel that a woman's heart is by far one of the most magnificent... It is from the bowels of the female heart that unconditional love, comforting warmth and breathtaking beauty emerges... It is so overwhelmingly awesome that you can almost always see God in the eyes of a mother...

But as with all powerful and awesome things, a woman's heart can be hardened... A hardened woman's heart is simply terrifying... It has been centuries since man have witnessed the grotesque and wicked nature of a hardened female's heart... To survive politically, Chinese concubines have resorted to killing their own daughters and torturing their fellow concubines in unspeakable ways...

Today's topic will be on the woman's heart....

You know the chinese egg cake? The yellow one split in the middle with a red dot on it? A woman's heart is very much like a chinese egg cake... When it feels no love, or is left out in the open or in the cold for too long... it hardens... it is unappetising to even look at the frozen chinese egg cake... no where near delectable... And just like a frozen chinese egg cake, a harden woman's heart is harsh and frightening, not something comforting and beautiful as it was intended to be...

The reason why women are mean and overly tough is not because they have breached the line of adulthood and have turned independent. It is because they feel insufficient love... As a result, their hearts are hardened... Just like an egg cake left in the fridge for too long...

Something soft and squishy is simply too vulnerable to blows and attacks, the woman has no choice but to harden her heart to cut losses... After many blows of dissapointment, the woman decides that it is best to just build a protective coating around her heart... The protective coating is simply a realisation that she is never going to recieve the love she longs for... that everything that looks like a potential lover is really more like a potential heartbreak...

This protective coating works like a forcefield by helping to protect the heart from dissapointment and hurt.... In turn, the woman forsakes her child-like innocence and compassion and turns means and judgemental... She becomes unforgiving and unloving... And this makes her highly unlikeable... making the possibility of her recieving love even smaller than before...

The solution? Warmth... Like a Chinese egg cake, all you need to do is to take it out of the fridge and steam is gently.. Don't throw it in the oven or subject it too much heat at once... You need to treat the heart with respect... Remember at all times, that the heart is enormously vulnerable... Just give it bite size comfortable portions of warmth and love in the gentlest most subtle way possible... and before you know it... the egg cake (and heart) is back to its soft and squishy self...

I really enjoy do nice things for women as I marvel at a woman's ability to mulitiply love... In fact, you must note that when you treat a lady kindly, you are not only opening up possibilities for your relationship with her, you are really softening her heart so that she can love all those around her...

Guys tend to be more, how do i put it, practical... when you are nice to a guy... he begins to imagine that you like him... and in a way, it sort of makes things awkward.... but that's never the case for women because giving and loving others unconditionally is simply the nature of a woman... All women understand this principle..

With that said, remember to always be kind to a woman... and if you can't, at least don't be mean... You never know who's heart you are hardening... and how much love you are depriving the world from having because of your mean act... A hard heart does no good to the mind and body... the lady will find herself stressed and tired and weak...

And men, please learn to take the place God has created for you... You are meant to look after the ladies as if they are the weaker gender... And yet I see many men these days who train their women up to harden their hearts to make harsh decisions... This is really not what the woman wants.. Deep inside, women are all soft-hearted creatures who long for peace and security and for someone to look after them... If given a choice, I believe that none of them would choose to be mean... It is just not in their nature...

Women, please be strong... I am not asking you to start building up your protective layer and hardening your hearts... I am asking you to have faith in people... Even if it should mean that your soft heart be made open and vulnerable to more blows... Remember, that however badly you are hurt, God can and is most willing to heal you... But what God cannot use is a hardened heart... He needs you soft, squishy and hopeful in order to use you best... Thus be strong in faith... Always have a confident expectation of good in people..