Make friends

What is the key of being accepted? Well.. seriously.. I don't think I have the right to write about such things... but this is just a hypothesis k.. Try to refrain from breaking out in a hysterical laugh when you read about this.

The key of being accepted is simply being confident... You know... selling yourself is as good as selling any product... If you are selling a good product.. you don't have to push it so hard.. people will automatically want to buy it.. In fact, pushing hard will only make them wonder if there is a defect in the product..

Therefore.. when it comes to selling yourself.. You've got to operate on the same logic.. Well, you don't like me... it is your lost.. Well.. sounds like a very cocky way of getting into a circle of friends eh? But its nonetheless pretty effective... Of course I am not telling you to be rude or mean... You have to be nice... But if you notice that niceness is not getting anywhere.. stop it...

If you are completely ignored when you greet someone.. just stop greeting that person... give him some space.. when you attempt to make a new friend.. it might seem intrusive and overwhelming.. therefore.. you got to pace yourself.. do not get too close too fast.. do not be too nice too fast (or people will think you are up to no good)... and no matter what always keep a good opinion of that person... Don't ever start thinking that that person is a conceited bastard.. instead... know that he just needs space and time to warm up....

Remember that when it comes to relationships.. You cannot force anyone to choose you... All you can do is to be confident... and wait for the person to open up...