Humans are innately self-conscious people with low self-esteems.. even a person as narcisstic as I.. feel lousy sometimes.. It is really an art to stay confident at all times... it involves the following steps:
- Block out negative thoughts.. Train yourself to identify a negative and unrealistic thought and remove it from your system instantly.
- Feel up that void with positive thoughts... Think about God and how nothing is impossible for him.. that he can make good come out of every evil situation..
- Act based on the positive thoughts... learn how to be kind to those who are mean to you.. but don't do so from a position of victimization.. it will only make the person feel like a villian and thus develop greater hate for you..
- Act based on love.. don't look pathetic.. look happy and loving...
Yeah.. So whenever possible.. practise thought control... Try to be steady and positive as much as you can.. however.. if you do feel shitty and terrible and can't control it.. I'ld suggest talking to a positive friend or just staying at home.. don't go out and ruin your relationships by screaming at everyone... experience has thought me that not all friends are equally tolerant.. some friends won't hesitate to abandon you when you start misbehaving.. so be patient.. don't expect so much from all your friends.. stay at home.. sort yourself out.. pray.. listen to sermons on God and Jesus... and when you are ready... go out and see the world again..
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