A research has shown that money can buy happiness… When it is spent on others…
A generous man will be refreshed… One who refreshes others will be himself, refreshed…
That’s why I enjoy doing things for people… Contributing to others… All in the name of altruism? Maybe… but more because I feel so refreshed… so important and so loved when people say thank you!
However, there’s a trap… its called the sai gang warrior trap… THAT is pure altruism… no one will appreciate you when you do things for a large group of people.. just like diffused responsibility… people feel that your love is diffused… If you intend to do good for a large group of people.. do it with the intention of being unappreciated, backstabbed and abused... then you won't be so dissapointed.. =)
For personal refreshment, focus on personal good deeds….like small gifts, cards and words of encouragement… people appreciate such things more.. =)
So if you are feeling drained today… Go out and shop for gifts for your friends and family… Trust me… You’ll feel so much better in no time… and better still… You will make the people around you… so much happier too..
PS. Would appreciate it if you included me in your gift list =)
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