I notice this trend... very prevalent in today's society.. Worring... for NO GOOD REASON.. you just like to worry.. and you file it under the pretense of planning for the future...
You had a great night out with someone new.. and the next day you find youself worried if this would escalate into something titanic.. bad.. doomed for destruction.. I mean.. hello.. you haven't even gotten to the second date what you so worried about... Some people start worrying when they are on the brink of getting attached to a guy.. some start worrying when they are going to get married.. most of the time.. people worry when something good happens in their lifes.. They just can't believe it.. They imagine that its God setting them up for one more major dissapointment.. I must admit... I am one of this people..
The problem with this kind of tendency to worry when something good happens is that its makes us very upset when happy things happen.. We find ourselves doubting the sincerity of the other party.. This normally escalates into a self fulling prophesy where your greatest fears come true...
So the solution for this problem is just to learn to have a good opinion of God.. Serious.. he is not trying to make a fool of you.. he's not trying to dissapoint you.. this time.. he really wants to bless you with this.. just try not to sabotage your own happiness..
With that said.. I love the way my sister puts it.. "If God wants to bless you with something.. you cannot run away from it. You can try, but he will find you and strike you with that blessing." Yap... so just know that no matter how much you have tried to sabotage your own happiness.. happiness is still on its way... for all you know.. it already here.
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