The most important skills we must all learn is simply to follow instructions and to give people what they want. Yes.. It is two skills that distinguishes the likeable from the unlikeable.

When everyone wants to talk, who is left to listen? If everyone gives out an instruction, who's left to follow the instruction? In order to gain the respect of man, you must first show respect for authority. When an instruction is given out, be the first to execute it. It will show that you respect the person.

It is so easy when someone comes asking for a favour to just brush him off. Afterall, you've got your own problems to worry about. But the truth is, there is no better way to make a friend than to offer a service to you friend. When someone comes to you requesting a favour, jump at this opportunity to seal the friendship. It is literally a golden nugget. And if I were you, I will grab every golden nugget I see. I mean seriously, your friends won't need you forever. So when they do need your help, help them.. and when you need their help in the future.. they will not hesitate to help you.

It's as simple as that... Always put yourself in the shoes of the other person... everyone wants a good friend someone who is always willing to help.. someone who isn't shy to show you his weaknesses.. someone who is genuine and will stick by you through rough times.... So, in order to get such friends.. you must first become one of them.