Does love make you stronger or weaker?

Does Love make you stronger or weaker?

Thought of this brilliant topic to write on.. Guess it had been lingering in my head for the past few months.. Just didn't have the right materials to write a entry on it...

There are many kinds of love.. Just like there are many kinds of men... There is a particular breed of men who enjoy plastering an image of their perfect dream like vulnerable and sweet women on the person they are dating... It is both good and bad..

For one... They will take great effort to ensure that the lady is perfectly well taken care of (as if she is too dumb to look after herself)... This makes the lady feel very much pampered and love.. and at the same time satisfy the man's chivaristic desire to protect something he loves.. It's all good.. except for the woman..

It makes the girl feel that she is loved and pampered but at the same time.. She starts to believe that she is really dumb and vulnerable.. In most cases, girls have mastered the art of acting stupid.. in order to continue this hero save beauty play acting.. However.. there are some girls who simply forget they are acting and really being absolutely vulnerable and needy...

This girls are really one of man's most horrible creations... they forgot how to fend for themselves.. take of themselves.. protect themselves... They really become nothing without men... It is dangerous.. Yes.. its good to feel pampered once in a while.. but to be over-pampered and transformed into a sensitive... easily hurt.. needy creature.. I think the man is doing too much..

The relationship has grown to a level that hinders growth in the girl's personality and character... It is good if the guy loves her.. but if he doesn't and suddenly decides to drop her.. she will be totally devastated... and helpless..

A kind of love that helps a person grow is a love that focuses on reassuring the person of his abilities to achieve great things.. This kind of love should not compromised by fixating your own personal image of your dream girl on your loved one.